1 Samuel 1:8
Then Elkanah her husband said to her, Hannah, why do you weep? Why do you not eat? And why is your heart grieved? Am I not better to you than ten sons?
My Father and my Lord, any sweet words from anyone not for evil but to keep me and my family in a position lower than our potentials, give us the grace to shake off such garment of comfortably in the name of Jesus Christ.